Frequently Asked Questions

What is
Ember Society?

Ember Society is a women- and queer-owned nonprofit dedicated to providing accessible education in Shibari, rope, and kink. We create a community-supported environment where care, respect, accessibility, and consent come first. Our space is built for students to explore embodiment and personal growth through a foundation of safety and skill-building. We offer classes, workshops, and events designed to support connection and exploration at all experience levels. We aim to reduce barriers so that more folks can connect, explore, and grow.

Do I need any experience to
attend?

Many of our classes are designed specifically with beginners in mind. Some classes will be more intermediate to advanced and will state on the event what is required to attend.

What is the
studio's Risk
Model?

Everything we do is built around the PRICK consent model — Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink. Which means every person is responsible for communicating honestly, acting with care, and respecting others.

Do I need to bring anything?

Wear comfortable clothing you can move in, mats if you have them, and water. If a class requires specific materials, it will be listed in the event description. Rope is not required for most beginner classes. We offer lockers to put away your belongings, additional beverages and snacks for very low cost are also available.

Do I need to come with a partner?

You’re welcome to attend solo or with a partner. Some classes include partner-based learning, but there are always options to observe, learn, or participate at your comfort level.

What if I feel nervous or unsure?

That’s completely normal. Trying something new, especially in an unfamiliar space, can feel intimidating. You don’t need to have it all figured out—just showing up is enough. If you’d like to ease in, we host socials twice a month where you can meet our community, connect with others, and get a feel for the space at your own pace.

I’m new to rope/Shibari. Where should I start?

You’ve come to the right place! Ember Society is a welcoming space for everyone, from the rope-curious to seasoned practitioners. If you’re just beginning your journey, we recommend starting with these two paths:

The Beginner Series: This is our structured, step-by-step curriculum. It is specifically designed to meet you exactly where you are, focusing on foundational safety, basic knots, and the fundamental mechanics of Shibari.
Community Events: If you’re not ready to tie yet but want to feel out the community, our social events offer a relaxed, low-pressure environment to connect with the community and see what Ember Society is all about.

How can I support Ember Society?

We are so grateful for your support! There are many ways to support our work. We’ve put together an Amazon Wishlist of items that help keep the Ember Society running smoothly. Choosing a gift from this list ensures we have exactly what we need to keep creating magic for our community.

Interested in volunteering with Ember Society? Learn about volunteer opportunities here.

How can I buy a membership?

To purchase a membership, visit our Momence Portal to create your account or log in. Once inside, click on the Memberships tab, select the tier that fits your practice, and check out. Your membership benefits will activate instantly. Just make sure you are logged into your profile whenever you book, and choose to apply your member perks at checkout.