Frequently Asked Questions
What is Ember Society?
Ember Society is a women- and queer-led nonprofit dedicated to providing accessible education in Shibari, rope, and kink. We create a community-supported environment where care, respect, accessibility, and consent come first.
Our space is built for students to explore embodiment and personal growth through a foundation of safety and skill-building. We offer classes, workshops, and events designed to support connection and exploration at all experience levels. We aim to reduce barriers so more folks can connect, explore, and grow.
Do I need any experience to attend?
Many of our classes are designed specifically with beginners in mind. Some classes will be more intermediate to advanced and will state on the event what is required to attend.
To understand what skill level is recommended, view our upcoming classes and events.
I’m new to rope/Shibari. Where should I start?
We recommend starting with our Beginner Series curriculum or attending a social Community Event to feel out the space at a relaxed, low-pressure pace.
Do I need to come with a partner?
You’re welcome to attend solo or with a partner. Some classes include partner-based learning, but there are always options to observe, learn, or participate at your comfort level.
What if I feel nervous or unsure?
That’s completely normal. Trying something new, especially in an unfamiliar space, can feel intimidating. If you’d like to ease in, we host socials twice a month where you can meet our community.
What is the studio's Risk Model?
Everything we do is built around the PRICK consent model — Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink. Which means every person is responsible for communicating honestly, acting with care, and respecting others.
What should I bring?
Wear comfortable clothing you can move in and bring a water bottle or reusable cup. As part of standard rope studio etiquette, please remove your shoes before stepping onto the mats. Shoe racks and lockers are available for your convenience.
What happens if I arrive late?
We understand that life happens! You will not be refused entry simply because you arrive late.
The studio door may be closed 15 minutes after a class begins or 30 minutes after the start of a rope jam. If you arrive after the door has closed, please ring the doorbell—do not knock—and someone will let you in when they’re able to do so without significantly disrupting the class or event.
Whenever possible, we encourage arriving a few minutes early so you have time to settle in before things begin.
Why do I need to register using my legal name?
For liability and insurance purposes, the name on your registration and identification must match the legal name used on your signed waiver.
We understand that many members of our community use a different name in their daily lives. You are welcome to let us know the name you would like us to use when addressing you at the studio.
Will I need to sign a waiver every time I attend?
Not necessarily, but you may be asked to sign a waiver more than once. Ember Society reserves the right to update its policies and waivers as our programs, space, and safety practices evolve. When changes are made, attendees may be required to review and sign the updated waiver before participating.
Can I do suspensions at Ember Society?
Suspension is not automatically permitted for all attendees. Anyone who would like to tie suspensions at Ember Society must be vetted and approved by our team and complete the required waiver process before suspending in the space.
Approval to attend or participate in other rope activities does not automatically include approval to suspend.
Do I need a membership to attend?
Nope! You do not need to be a member to attend Ember Society classes, rope jams, or community events. Drop-in pricing is listed with each individual offering.
Memberships can help you get more bang for your buck if you attend regularly—and they provide ongoing support that helps keep the studio available to our community.
How can I buy a membership?
To purchase a membership, visit our Momence Portal to create your account or log in. Once inside, click on the Memberships tab, select the tier that fits your practice, and check out. Your membership benefits will activate instantly. Ensure you are logged into your profile whenever you book, and choose to apply your member perks at checkout.
Where does the money I spend at Ember Society go?
Money paid directly to Ember Society goes right back into the space. As a nonprofit, our income helps us pay rent and cover the costs of maintaining an accessible, community-supported studio.
Your class fees, memberships, and donations help keep Ember Society open and make our programming possible.
Can I sell my work in the storefront?
Yes! Creators may sell their work in the Ember Society storefront at no cost. Ember Society does not take a portion of the sale; proceeds from your items go back to you as the creator.
If you’re interested in vending through the storefront, email info@embersociety.org.
How do I report an incident or safety concern?
If you experience or witness an incident involving safety, consent, or conduct at Ember Society, please email director@embersociety.org.
You’re welcome to share as much information as you feel comfortable providing. Reports will be reviewed by Ember Society leadership and handled with care.
How can I support Ember Society?
Every person who walks through our doors helps make Ember Society what it is. Whether you attend a class, join us for a rope jam, shop from our storefront, volunteer your time, or simply tell someone about our community, your participation helps keep this space vibrant and growing. Showing up matters—and we’re genuinely grateful each time you choose to spend your time with us.
If you’d like to offer additional support, there are several ways to do so:
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Invite a friend or share Ember Society with others who may be looking for a space like this
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Purchase snacks, merchandise, or other items from our storefront
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Choose an item from our Amazon Wishlist to help us keep the studio stocked and running smoothly
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Learn more about volunteering your time and skills with Ember Society
However you choose to participate, thank you. Your presence, trust, generosity, and care help us continue creating a welcoming space for learning, connection, and community.