RESPECT.  PRICK NOT DICKS.

R — Respecting the repair process. We acknowledge harm can happen. Respect means engaging in repair with accountability, care, and a willingness to listen and grow. 

E — Education happens in many forms. Learning comes from classes, experience, reflection, and community. Curiosity and humility are part of growth. 

S — Shared spaces and shared responsibility. Our spaces are collective. Safety, care, and upkeep are everyone’s responsibility. 

P — Property, people, and relationships. We respect bodies, belongings, time, and connections. No one is owed access, labor, or emotional energy. 

E — Explicit, ongoing consent. Consent is clear, informed, and reversible. It applies to touch, language, power, and participation. 

C — Community accountability. Accountability centers care, impact, and growth — not punishment or avoidance. 

T — Time, presence, and participation. Trust is built by showing up, being present, and engaging with the community over time. 

 

P — Personal 

R — Responsibility 

I — Informed 

C — Consensual 

K — Kink 

 

NOT 

 

D — Divisiveness 

I — Invalidating others’ experiences 

C — Coercive behavior 

K — Kink entitlement 

S — Self-interest over community care